For days I have been debating with myself whether or not I should write this article and the debate was not very effective.
However, the story of the Kenyatta University graduate who
was murdered by his jilted lover which has been discussed exhaustively on radio, TV and Social Media got me to my breaking point.
In my own analysis, here are the reasons why Kenyan Men cannot Take Rejection
1. They view Relationships as an investment
This is where they got it all wrong. Relationships are best on mutual love and agreement. Whatever you do is an act of love or appreciation and not an investment.
2. They have a Super Ego
This is a good quality in men but if exploited it is a toxic quality. Most of our men are not ready to take no for an answer even when a relationship is not working.They do not want to appear as a lesser man infront of their peers. My advice to you is that, work on your relationship and pay attention to your lady and you will be THE MAN!!!
3. They see Women as a Commodity
Hello, we are not in the stone age period my friends. Women are human beings with intellectual capacity and with similar rights to you. Things have changed and its about time you adapt. NOBODY OWNS A WOMAN.
4. They Feel that Women do not Bring Anything
I am saying this again just to make it clear, women are human beings with intellectual capacity and with similar rights to you. Without that woman, you would have no relationship.
5. They are Generally Insecure
Insecurities simply build broken relationships. Get a grip of yourself and show your lady what you are worth then you will need not to worry about rejection.